Dating issues black women
It has been known that the bigger the backside the better. Many studies show that black men prefer woman with curves and white men prefer women who are thin.
After speaking to 6 black women between the ages of 25-40 most state that they believe a white man would not be attracted to them because of their voluptuous bodies. Hair Black women have been ridiculed for their hair for many many years. If we have a weave, we aren’t happy with who we are and would really like to be a white woman. Since this is already a touchy subject in the black community, it’s obvious as to why a black woman would rather avoid the whole “hair conversation” when dating a white man.
Unfortunately many of the reasons stem from insecurity.
I think it’s important for us as black women to not miss out on opportunities just because of insecurities.
We should also be able to get exactly what we want.
Black men have made it no secret their liking to white women.Because the black community doesn’t have as many advantages this leaves desirable black women to a minimum. They are never approached by white men We as black women are constantly criticized for being the ones not open to dating outside of our race but what happens if white men just do not approach us?When I surveyed these women, 4 out of the 6 said they were never even approached by a white guy.The women I surveyed said they were naturally intimidated when it came to dating a white man because of their hair. Background/Education Statistics show that Caucasians have more money, better education, better jobs and more opportunities.
In the black community, we naturally have to work twice as hard and be 3 times smarter to achieve the level of success deemed to be successful.
By: Carla Ford Have you ever considered if you lived in the UK, would men of others races be more openly receptive in showing their attraction towards Black women?