Dating for a month what to expect
After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads. We met online and clicked immediately, and soon decided to be exclusive.Hello everyone, I thank you in advance for the thoughtful reply you would leave. I'm in my mid-20s and he's in his mid-30s, despite the big age gap, we get along great, respect each other's opinions, make sacrifices for each other, try hard to make each other happy, and just overall enjoy each other's company to the fullest. When we are physically together, I can honestly say that I am fulfilled and happy.The Frisky: 30 things every woman should quit doing by 30 I don't want to sound cynical or jaded.I totally believe in love for myself and my friends, but what I believe in more is that it takes a really long time to get to know someone and it's a complicated process.He would only say it when he is absolutely certain that he is in love, and his definition of love is that he has to prioritize the other person's happiness above his own.(Personally I think his definition is a little bit strict, but I suppose I can understand) He says that at the moment he's not concerned about whether we are in love, all he cares about is that we spend a lot of time together.He claims that he'll be worried about the love issue when it doesn't happen after 2 years.He is happy in this relationship with very little complaints, and does not see us breaking up anytime soon or ever.
My current SO has not said it to me, we've been dating for almost a year now, but all of his actions indicate to me what "love" would represent, so I am not as concerned that he hasn't said the words. Everything he does and what he represents feels like what love is supposed to be.
For instance, he hasn't said the L word yet (and I'm confused, because from time to time, I do get the vibe that he does love me from the way he looks at me and the way he takes cares of me). I asked him while we were on vacation around 3 month into our relationship if he loved me, he said he thought so.